How do you find time for yourself when your main goal is to help other people?
Don’t get me wrong, I always had the intention of helping women reach the freedom they desired in their lives, but I needed to make sure that I had the time, money, and energy to bring others with me first. That includes building skills, leveraging systems, finding mentors, taking care of my mind and body, and in the end, having a profitable business.
As women we are conditioned to be nurturing and caring and that follows us into our businesses without even knowing it. To put others before ourselves is important, but becomes dangerous when your resources of time, money, or energy are being emptied.
What good is all the money in the world if you don’t have the energy to play with your children?
What will you do with a ton of free time if you don’t have the resources to do what you want during that time?
Here’s the thing though:
For me, I struggled with balancing my nurturing side with my business goals. It’s not something that naturally sorts itself out just because I started a business. It took a lot of time.
And my then boyfriend-now husband- and I dealt with it by moving to another country. We paved our own road and did a lot of it alone until we found a mentor that taught us how to regain our time which helped create the lifestyle we truly wanted. Mentors who took the time to explain to us, it was not “money” that is evil but “the love of money” that is.
For me, this was one of the first illusions I had to break in order to be able to follow through with the tasks necessary to run a successful business. I do believe before, because of my own limiting beliefs, I sabotaged my own success. Which, now that I look at it, was a bit selfish of me.
I say that, because all along, I’ve always wanted to help people. That’s what Women Of Bliss, Lifestyle Alchemy events that include men too, & everything we do on a regular basis is all about. My brand literally is developed with the intention of helping to set humanity free. It’s the reason why we govern our business in a way, to know what to walk away from.
And to think, it began with overstanding, the true power in money. Is that it is a tool, to be used, society says we need it to pay for things like a roof over our head. (Bare with me here.) So, if by restricting myself from it because I was being a “better” person, made me even more dependent upon the system/society I don’t trust in the first place. Hmm, are you beginning to see why, for me, I had to break that cycle and understand there was nothing wrong with having a lot of money. Actually, it allows you to make different decisions, experience more and have more free time!
And I want the same for you!
You can bring your amazing products and services to a targeted audience and keep balance in your time, money, and energy.
I heard it called “filling up your cup first.” Imagine a tea cup on a saucer. Everything in the saucer is for you, but what overflows into the saucer is what you can give and share. You have to fill up your saucer first with your time, money, and energy before you are ready to give and share of your abundance.
Now, don’t get this confused. You can start selling your products and services before your are a guru. Your cup being full has nothing to do with being an expert in everything you do or having a lot of money. Instead, it’s about your level of commitment to your personal growth.
You don’t have to go at it alone or waste your time trying to figure out what you need to succeed. I am dedicated to ensuring that you have the time, business, and energy that will give you the most freedom in your life. To have someone call you within 48 hours about your goals and how to maximize your efforts, click here,
and put yourself on the fast track to getting results.
Sometimes, you need to focus on yourself first. How are you supposed to lift up your fellow brother or sister if you are worried about paying for gas to get you to and from work?
That’s why I created the Women’s Alchemy Facebook group. It’s a place for women like you and me, who need to make sure we keep our cups full so we can:
-Have time freedom to do what is the most important
-Build businesses that bring abundance and freedom to our lives
-Feel the best physically and mentally
And most importantly…
Continue caring and nurturing those around us.
If I were still grinding and going “through the motions” of online marketing, and building an audience without finding ways to leverage my time or take care of my physical and spiritual bodies, you can bet that I would not have EVER been able to have the freedom I have in my life today.
Some of you may have heard about Hurricane Irma that hit Florida in September. What you may not know is that my family was in Zone A in Tampa Bay. Zone A means mandatory evacuation. We live steps away from the ocean. Earlier that year, the pier was underwater from a “regular” rain storm, so we knew it would be most wise to relocate for the storm. We heard the news about airlines price gouging. We heard the stories about gas shortages throughout the state. We heard the stories about no flights being available. We saw the footage of completely filled highways.
Through all this, we prepared. We bought jugs to fill with our K8 machine. We bought fruits and veggies that did not need to be refrigerated. I went to my mom’s house-thankfully she is not in an evacuation zone- and bought her water, fruits, veggies, and many non perishables.
Then, I looked for plane tickets for the following day out of Florida. My husband and I looked for the entire day. When we got to Denver, CO- our amazing friend and host- said, “Isn’t it great you had the opportunity to sit at the computer all day waiting for flights to refresh?”
That’s truly what we did, and he was right. My friends and family were at work when I was refreshing the American Airlines webpage. This is just one way that freedom manifests itself in my life.
Are you ready to manifest greater levels of freedom in your life?
Here’s a few things you can do to get started now:
Join the private Facebook group: Women’s Alchemy Circle
Women’s Alchemy Circle is a place for women to meet, network, and stay motivated on their goals. D goes live to share life and business wisdom very often and hosts a weekly call on Thursdays at 11.11 am to make sure to stay in contact and provide new tips of the trade.